courage

This is the art of courage: to see things as they are and still believe that the victory not lies with those who avoid the bad, but those who taste, in living awareness, every drop of the good.  Victoria Lincoln

Enough

I love you. I love you enough to let you go. I love me enough to let you go.

Together

Together we don't have it all together, but together we have it all. This simple little sentence is so true. Most of us don't have it "together" most of the time. However we still have it "all." If we are lucky we still have the one we fell in love with. The one person on the face of the earth that has seen the good, the bad, and the ugly and stayed by their side and loved them no matter what. All we need to do is OPEN our EYES, and OPEN our HEARTS. It IS that simple.

Love it not suppose to hurt

A nine year old boy was as the question, How do you fall in love. His answer was " You get shot by an arrow and after that it is not suppose to hurt." Wouldn't it be wonderful if he was right?

Relationships

You can ruin a relationship by failing to let go of the old and not bringing in the new.

6 Years ago yesterday

Six years ago yesterday (9/28/2004) I had a kidney transplant. I had forgot. I didn't think that is was a big deal. I had both of my kidneys removed and a few weeks later had a transplant, thanks sis! It was easy. Physical pain I deal with very well, sometimes to well. I have a hard time dealing with emotional pain. But I am learning slowly, but surely how to deal.....

Coming out of the dark

My life has been very....stressful...sad...confused...to put it as honest as I can it has been a total mess.
I have had a wonderful life

 It has been filled with joy and sadness, just like yours and everyone who lives on this planet.
We all get up every morning and face what the day brings us.

I have learned over the past few months that I must focus on the great things in my life and see all the wonderful good people and the great things that makes my life good.

It is time for me to be me. Over the past week I have spent many hours looking inside myself. Coming to know what I want.  How I want my life.

We all only have one shot at this.
There are no do-overs, only new starts................


We must love to be loved.
We must forgive to be forgiven.
We must give to be able to accept.