Job

You men have no idea what we're dealing with down there. Teeth placement, and jaw stress, and suction, and gag reflex, and all the while bobbing up and down, moaning and trying to breathe through our noses. Easy? Honey, they don't call it a job for nothin'. --- Sex In The City

Me

I know it seems like I'm this strong person who can get though anything, but inside I'm fragile. I've had so many things thrown at me, and each one has only made a crack. What I'm afraid of is shattering.

Save my Brain Cells

If one of my brain cells died every time you made me sad

If one of my brain cells died every time you make me cry

If one of my brain cells died every time you made me mad

If one of my brain cells died every time I ask why……

I know that there would be nothing left in my head

I would be declared totally, 100% brain dead!!!!!

Puzzle

Love is like a puzzle. When you're in love, all the pieces fit but when your heart gets broken, it takes a while to get everything back together. "

~ Unknown

I love getting these

Don't we all love getting little love notes left for you to find.......from the one and only love of your life?

10 Things You Might Not Know About Me

1.  I wanted to join the Navy when I was 18

2.  When I am alone on weekends I do my housework in the nude

3.  I would like to meet Oprah

4.  I have 12 scars

5.  I would like to spend the weekend at a nudist camp (no housework though)

6.  I keep a written journal

7.  I have 11 tattoos

8.  I have been close to death twice.  (both times after surgeries)

9.  I want a sleeve tatted on my right arm

10. I have planned my own funeral service

fluffy.....

i like fluffy......

fluffy pillows, fluffy clouds, fluffy blankets, fluffy cotton balls.
there are things that are meant to be fluffy.


there are things that should never be fluffy...

your body.  if you have a "fluffy" body it is a nice way to say you are fat!
your hair. if you have "fluffy" hair it is a nice way of saying that your hair is a dry, fly away mess!

Me

i am not a perfect girl.  my hair doesn't always look good & I misplace things,a lot.  i spill things & sometimes i have a broken heart. i sometimes fight. maybe some days nothing goes right.  but when i think about it & take a step back i remember how amazing life truly is & that maybe, just maybe i like being unperfect.........author unknown

Then and now

I found this on my bathroom mirror when I got up one morning:) All I have to say to is Back at You!!!! ................Loved you then (1978), Love you now (2011), Always have, Always will.

It is time

are you lost?  not sure of who you are? when did this happen? how did it happen?  did it happen slowly? did you even notice that it was happening? did you wake up one day and say "WTF????" or did it happen all at once, like a jethro slap on the back of your head? 
did you look in a mirror, look straight into your eyes and say "who is this person?"
it is time to find "you"

don't let other people fool you...
they don't know the "real" you or the you that you once were.
people are giving you a false you
it might be a you that you think you want to be, or should be
you didn't choose this you
it was given to you by someone
how can you let that happen?
you are the only one that can find....you
you might think it's too hard
a painful journey, one that you do not want to take alone
you have to...
to be happy, to live your life, to move forward,
enjoy, be the you that YOU want to be

go...........take the first step
then another
the more steps you take the easier they become
the steps will come faster and faster
the journey becomes and adventure.
the adventure of your life

feeling.....................

i still feel sick, getting better...it will just take  a little time to ride this out.  i can do it. other than that i am feeling  bit weak and sleepy.......................zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Forgiveness

Forgiveness has to start with ones self.  If we forgive it does not mean that we support or condone everything that we have done.  It means we own it, claim it.  Accept we were wrong and move on. We can not become self absorbed in berating ourselves that we never quite reach forgiveness.  We have to let go and move on to forgive ourselves.  If we don't forgive ourselves, how do we forgive others?

How.......

just wondering ............... how do you know?

Paint your heart with love

"Y"

Y because I love you

LOVE

yes

yes, i can!!!

today not tuned

This morning when I started the truck to go to work the radio came on.  It was not tuned in, nothing but static.  The very first thing that pop in my head was "that is how my life is, not tuned, lots of static." My second thought that came to me was, "time for a tune up."  Time for me to say what I want in my life and how I want my life to be.  Everything......................my relationship with my spouse is NUMBER ONE! Start with the most important.  It is worth it.  Then.............go from there.

Best Advice

I read this in a book the other day and wanted to pass it on. .

Advice given to a young girl from her old southern Granddaddy
"Be particular" He pronounced it "p'ticklar
Be particular.  That is, without a doubt, the Best Advice Ever Given in the History of the Entire World.  Consider, if you will, the profound effect that following advice would have on, say, your diet, your love life, your financial situation, your decision on whether to have that next drink.  I mean, what do those two words not cover?

friend

a friend is someone who knows the song in your heart
and can sing it to you when you have forgotten the words

love u

love u more, not less.

we have seen the good and the bad in one another, and we are both still here.


i believe the reason we are still here is because it is where we are suppose to be.


our life together has more for us to experience.............together............wonderful

am i right?  i believe so..............

Help

When you need a helping hand, just look at the end of your arm...............

Change

I don't think that I will ever be able to be the "one" again. 
They want me to change.
I have changed some, because I thought if I did, I would still be the "one" in their life.
I don't feel as though I should change who I am.

The other person has changed.
They changed because someone helped them change.
Changed their way of thinking.
Changed their way of seeing things.
Changed their way of feeling.
Changed so much I don't even really think that I know the person anymore.


They changed because they wanted to.

Friday..................

Friday.  Wonder what the weekend will bring?

Which do you do?

Instead of pointing a finger, lend a helping hand.

What to do.....................

What to do with my life.........career.........lol.  Time for a change.  Maybe I will become a.......actress, super model............shrink...........lawyer.........doctor.  Decisions..............decisions!!!!

Yes!

Wouldn't life be wonderful, and dreams would come true, if we kept the spirit of Christmas the whole year through?

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